by Pat
I sometimes look at my life's faith journey these
past 47 years as if it were a trip to a foreign country.
The first 18 years was a guided tour. My guides
told me what to see, what to do, where to go, and all of the
local traditions to observe. One did not deviate from the
itinerary.
During the next 15 years I began to venture off
more on my own. I relied on many of my past tour experiences and
fell into some of those old tourist traps, but I also did begin
to discover some of those special people and places which exist
off the beaten path.
The last 14 years, I have begun to feel more like
a seasoned traveler. My trip does not take nearly as much
planning and I can usually pick up and go at a moment's notice.
I look forward to renewing acquaintances and I can even act as a
tour guide when required. Unfortunately, I can also fall into
the complacency of "seen it, done it, been there." In addition,
I have also discovered that the more you sometimes know about a
place, the more you want to learn about it. I know that many
people have had a much more perilous faith journey than I. To be
truthful, reconciling my sexual orientation with my religion has
never really presented a problem for me. Since I never heard the
words "gay" or "homosexual" while growing up, they didn't exist
for me. So, in my simplified black and white world, I didn't
have to deal with the matter.
In actuality, I came to terms with being Gay long
before I came to terms with being a Christian. The real struggle
in this faith journey of mine has not been being Gay in a
Christian community, but rather, being a Christian in the Gay
community.
I expect that this faith journey I'm on will be a
long and ever changing one. I'm also sure that I will always
question certain doctrines and teachings. I believe strongly,
though, that this world needs good faith communities and that
positive change in the existing ones can only come from within
and not by running away from them.
I am not now, and may never be, a person of great
religious faith. My religious experiences as an adult have often
centered on studying and appreciating the obvious faith of
others. I tend to surround myself with people of strong faith.
As I listen to and worship with these true Christians, I can
only hope that it will somehow direct me to that solid and
comforting faith to which so many of us aspire…the end of
a journey that was well worth taking.
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